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The Business Advice I Ignored (And Wish I Hadn’t)

You know that piece of business advice someone gives you and your immediate reaction is:

Yeah...that doesn't really apply to me.

I've been that person.

More than once.

I've been in business for myself for a long time and through several different business ventures. And looking back, I can confidently say I've experienced just about every business-owner mindset along the way.

I've been excited.

I've been overwhelmed.

I've thought I could do everything myself.

I've chased the shiny new thing.

I've waited to do something because I thought my business wasn't “big enough” yet.

And I've definitely ignored really good advice because I convinced myself my situation was somehow different.

It took me a long time to get where I am today. And if sharing some of the lessons I learned the hard way can help you get there a little faster, I'm happy to be transparent about them.

Because here's what I've realized:

The business advice I ignored wasn't necessarily wrong. I just wasn't ready to hear it yet.

Here are some of the biggest lessons I wish I had listened to sooner.

1. Build Your Email List Before You Think You Need It

Yes, I know.

This sounds incredibly cliché coming from someone who now owns a marketing agency that specializes in email marketing.

But I ignored this advice, too.

When I first started in business, I remember hearing that I needed to start building an email list.

My response?

What am I going to say?

Social media is easier.

I'll worry about that when I have a bigger audience.

To be fair, I started during the beautiful golden era of social media when you could post something and people actually saw it.

Wild concept, right?

So at the time, email didn't feel urgent.

Until social media changed.

Reach dropped. Algorithms changed. And suddenly, depending entirely on social media became a much bigger problem.

Your Email List Is Something You Own

Your email list gives you something social media never can: an audience you have significantly more control over reaching.

You aren't relying on whether an algorithm decides your customer should see today's post.

And that list becomes more valuable the longer you nurture it.

Think about what happens when you wait.

You launch a new collection, course, product, or service and suddenly realize you don't have a warm audience waiting to hear about it.

Now you're starting from zero.

You're trying to convert cold traffic instead of talking to people who have already spent weeks or months hearing from you and building trust with your brand.

Cold traffic takes longer to convert.

A nurtured audience already knows who you are.

And yes, even when I started Boutique Bestie Solutions, I knew this and STILL waited too long to prioritize our own list.

We were busy.

The agency grew quickly.

Client work came first.

We were doing emails for everyone else while taking forever to consistently do our own.

Don't make the same mistake.

Start building the list now, even if it's small.

Your future business will be glad you did.

2. You Probably Don't Need Another Idea

Business owners tend to have a special relationship with shiny objects.

A new platform appears.

A new product idea pops into your head.

Someone asks about a collaboration.

There's a new marketing strategy everyone is talking about.

Suddenly you're ready to throw your entire plan out the window and chase it.

New things feel exciting.

They can also make us feel productive.

And those two things can be dangerous together.

Because being busy does not automatically mean you're moving your business forward.

Every time you abandon what you were doing to chase something new, you're essentially starting over.

Your energy never has enough time to gain traction.

And when you say yes to every collaboration, partnership, idea, product, opportunity, or strategy that comes your way, eventually you're spread so thin that nothing gets your full attention.

More options do not automatically create more progress.

Use This 4-Question Filter Before Saying Yes

The next time an exciting opportunity lands in your lap, don't immediately jump.

Ask yourself:

1. Does this move my current top priority forward?

Or is it pulling me further away from the thing I already decided matters?

2. Have I actually finished what I started?

Be honest here.

Are you adding something new because it's necessary or because finishing the current thing isn't as exciting anymore?

3. Am I saying yes because it's exciting or because it's strategic?

Excitement isn't bad.

But excitement alone isn't a business strategy.

4. Will I still care about this in 90 days?

Or does it only feel urgent because it's new and shiny right now?

Not every good idea needs to become a right now idea.

Sometimes the answer isn't no.

It's simply:

Not yet.

3. Document Everything Before You Think You Need To

Here's another lesson I resisted for way too long:

If something only exists inside your head, you can't scale it.

You need systems.

And you need to document those systems before you're desperate for someone else to follow them.

A lot of business owners think SOPs, or standard operating procedures, are something you create once you have a big team.

Nope.

Create them now.

If you've figured out a repeatable way of doing something in your business that works, document it.

You don't have to make this complicated, either.

Record yourself doing the process.

If it's something you do on your computer, screen-record it.

If it's a physical process, like packing orders, set up your phone and record yourself doing it.

Then turn that process into an SOP someone else can follow.

Your system should explain the workflow from start to finish, who is involved, and which tools are used.

Because here's the goal:

Someone other than you should be able to follow it.

That's how you start creating freedom in your business.

4. If You Do It More Than Once, Write It Down

Don't look at your business tomorrow and think you have to create 100 SOPs before lunchtime.

Start small.

What do you repeat every day?

Every week?

Every month?

Start there.

The next time you complete one of those tasks, document it while you're doing it.

Then keep going.

Over time, you'll build a library of processes without having to stop everything else you're doing to create it.

And don't forget that your SOPs need to evolve with your business.

Systems change.

Tools change.

Processes improve.

If you change how something is done, update the documentation.

At minimum, make a point to review your important SOPs quarterly.

The worst time to realize your training materials are six months out of date is when you just hired someone you desperately need working in the business right now.

5. Your Team's Mistakes Might Actually Be a Systems Problem

This one requires a little ownership.

Let's say you hire someone and they don't understand a process.

You explain it again.

Then another person comes along later and gets stuck in the exact same place.

At some point, you have to ask:

Is this actually a people problem, or is there a gap in the way I'm teaching this?

If multiple people can't follow the same process, go back to the process.

Maybe there's a tiny detail that feels obvious to you because you've done it 1,000 times.

But it isn't obvious to someone who doesn't live inside your brain.

That's the test of a good SOP.

You should be able to hand it to someone, let them follow it, and see where they get stuck.

Every point of confusion gives you an opportunity to improve the system.

6. Hire Sooner

Oh, this one.

This is advice I've only really learned to accept and execute well in more recent years.

Hire sooner.

We convince ourselves we'll hire when we have more money.

When things calm down.

When the business gets a little bigger.

When we have enough work.

When we feel ready.

But when you make the right hire, you're buying back something incredibly valuable:

Capacity.

You only have 24 hours in a day.

If you're spending those hours doing tasks out of habit, fear, or simply because you've never taught someone else how to do them, you're limiting how much your business can grow.

Think about it this way.

If someone can take a lower-value task off your plate and give you an hour back to focus on the work only you can do, that hire isn't simply an expense.

You're trading money for capacity.

And capacity creates room for growth.

7. Know the Signs That You've Become the Bottleneck

How do you know when it's time to consider hiring?

Start here.

You're turning down opportunities because you don't have capacity.

Maybe it's client work.

Maybe it's a speaking opportunity.

Maybe it's a market you wanted to attend.

Maybe you're turning down dinner with a friend because you feel like you can't step away from the business for two hours.

Your lack of capacity is starting to cost you.

You're spending hours doing something a specialist could do quickly.

Maybe creating one marketing email takes you three hours.

Could someone who specializes in email marketing do it in a fraction of the time?

Probably.

And what could you have done with those three hours instead?

Being capable of doing something doesn't automatically mean you should be the person doing it.

You're holding everyone else up.

The launch is waiting on you.

Your marketing team needs photos you haven't sent.

Social media hasn't been updated because you're too busy packing orders.

Your team can't move forward because they need your approval.

If everything in your business has to pass through you, eventually you become the bottleneck.

You keep saying, “I'll hire when things slow down.”

Newsflash:

They probably won't.

There's rarely going to be a magical week when you wake up with tons of extra money, an empty calendar, and absolutely no fear about bringing another person into your business.

Hiring can be scary.

But waiting until you're completely overwhelmed doesn't make it easier.

8. Consistency Beats Intensity

This might be one of the most important lessons on this entire list.

A little, often, beats a lot, occasionally.

Business owners are really good at intensity.

We suddenly get a burst of time or motivation and go ALL IN.

We post constantly.

We send the emails.

We go live for three hours.

We start the project.

We do all the things.

Then life gets busy again.

And everything stops.

A few weeks later, we get another burst of motivation and start the cycle all over again.

That's not the same as consistency.

Going live for three hours once and disappearing for four weeks isn't as powerful as consistently showing up for 20 minutes every week.

One consistent weekly touchpoint can outperform one massive marketing push followed by silence.

One imperfect post every week builds more trust than one “perfect” post every month.

Your customers don't need occasional intensity from you. They need consistent visibility.

9. Give It 90 Days Before You Decide It Doesn't Work

This is where so many business owners quit too early.

You start something new.

Week one?

Nothing.

Week two?

Still nothing.

By week three, you're thinking:

This is a waste of time.

But compounding takes time.

Whether you're testing email marketing, Pinterest, a new social strategy, live selling, or another consistent marketing channel, you have to give it enough time to work.

That's why I want you to think in terms of at least 90 days, not two weeks.

At first, it may feel like nothing is happening.

A few more weeks pass and you start seeing tiny signs.

Then you get closer to two months and think:

Okay...maybe this IS doing something.

By the time you've consistently done it for 90 days, you finally have enough information to start evaluating whether it's working.

And sometimes it takes even longer.

The problem is that most people stop doing the consistent thing right before they would have started seeing the compounding effect.

Small, intentional actions done over and over again may not feel exciting.

But they're powerful.

What Business Advice Are You Still Resisting?

Now it's your turn.

What piece of advice have you heard repeatedly that you still haven't acted on?

Build the list?

Delegate?

Hire?

Create systems?

Stop chasing every new idea?

Show up consistently?

Why haven't you done it?

Is it a lack of time?

Fear?

Do you think your situation is different?

Are you simply not convinced it'll work?

If you're hearing the same advice repeatedly from people you trust, maybe it's worth experimenting with.

You don't have to commit to it forever.

Give it 90 days.

Try the thing.

Do the scary little micro steps.

Stay consistent long enough to actually see what happens.

Because when I look back at the advice I resisted, I realize something:

The advice wasn't wrong. I just wasn't ready to hear it.

And maybe there's something you've been hearing that you're finally ready to hear, too.

Build a Business That Gives You More Freedom

Growing a business isn't just about making more money.

It's about building something that doesn't require every ounce of you to keep running.

Build the audience.

Focus on what matters.

Document the systems.

Ask for help.

Hire when you need capacity.

And keep showing up, even when the results aren't immediate.

Those small decisions compound.

And over time, they're what create the freedom you probably started your business hoping to have in the first place.

Ready for Fresh Eyes on Your Marketing?

At Boutique Bestie Solutions, we help boutique owners and e-commerce brands grow through strategic email marketing, SMS marketing, Pinterest marketing, and proven growth strategies designed to increase revenue without adding more to your plate.

If you're spending hours trying to DIY your marketing, struggling to stay consistent, or know your business is ready for more strategic support, we'd love to help.

Reach out to learn more about our free marketing audits and our DIY and done-for-you marketing services.
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